What do you do when your children are exposed to a child rapest by the other parent.?

I have been to court for several years now. I have four court investigators reports stating that the children should not be in the care of the other parent but the judge on the case continues to ask for futher investigations. Could some one give advice to keep the children from being next victim from this child rapest. I have already contacted local police, the sex offender registry, and 90% of all child advocity agendicy in Massachusetts. They advice me to go back to the same court that wants more investigations.


A concern parent.What do you do when your children are exposed to a child rapest by the other parent.?
Your situation infuriates me! I worked with victims of domestic violence for 11 years and repeatedly saw situations like this. I don't understand these judges! I wish they'd get their heads out of their ..., well you know what I mean.





Do your children have a law guardian/guardian ad litem? A lawyer appointed by the court to represent their best interests? Have you discussed this situation with their lawyer?





Have you made an actual child abuse report? I don't know the system in Massachusetts. In New York State we have a statewide Child Abuse Registry with a 24-hour hotline. At the very least it seems the other parent would be charged with neglect and possibly only have supervised visitation.





A couple of the women I worked with, whose children were at risk of being sexually molested, left and went ';underground.'; They tried the legal way and when that failed the left. It's a hard life and they risked going to jail if they got caught. They didn't care. Keeping their children safe was all that mattered.





I did some research and found the sites below. The third is about reporting suspected abuse/neglect in Massachusetts along with the 800 number.





If you'd ever like to talk, please feel free to contact me. You and your children are in my prayers. God Bless!What do you do when your children are exposed to a child rapest by the other parent.?
Damn.... why is the judge asking for further findings? Do you have a lawyer? If so I would ask that lawyer to take it above that judge... or another judge. Someone has to protct these kids.... Ill try and resaech this and let you know what I come up with. Email me if you need anything. You can also join the below lon for support while fighting.
What exactly are you asking the judge to do? Take visitation away from the father? He won't do that. It is in the child's best interest to have access to their father.





Are you asking them to arrest the man? He was obviously already arrested and tried and convicted for his crime. He can't be arrested again until he commits another one.





Are you asking the judge to order the father to not bring the kids around this guy? Is there such a thing as this? It is not a restraining order... you have to do something to warrant a restraining order.





I would hope the father is supervising the visits. You failed to mention this. Is he letting this man babysit the kids?





You have not even mentioned what this man did to be deemed a ';child rapist';... could you elaborate on that?





I am sure the judge sees the whole picture, including what the law can and cannot do in this case.
I presume what you are saying is that the courts have decided that your children are not in danger and you disagree.





You cannot control the judge.





You can teach your children to be aware and to call 911 if they are in danger. CAUTION: do not, under any circumstances, encourage children to call 911 if they are not in danger -otherwise you'll teach the children that lying is good (and the other parent has more reason to sue for custody).
The difficult thing here is, if you go against the courts, you will be sent to jail and your children will have to stay with their father and will be exposed to this man even more than they are now.


What more does this judge want?? Is he waiting for something to happen to one of your children before making an judgements?? I would ask your lawyer who you can contact to get a new judge assigned - this one is a complete idiot and @ssh0le.


How old are your children?? Are they old enough to tell Dad they don't want to go with him?? Before his next visit, call him and tell him the kids are not feeling well and would like to stay home.


Your kids have every right to know about this man so they can take precautions to protect themselves. Show them the website http://www.familywatchdog.us/ and explain what he has done to other children. It's going to scare them enough to ask Dad not to bring him around. You have every right to protect your children and if your ex gets mad at you for telling them - explain to him that you want your children to know so they will know they need to stay away from him.


I wish you all the best of luck and hope this gets resolved very soon for your childrens sake.
Call O'Riley or your local news. Seriously. The judge probably is a pervert himself. Honestly. Talk to a lawyer and then the news.
Call protective service or talk to a school social worker.The social worker can talk to the child to see if anything wrong is going on in the house hold.
all you can do is try your hardest to keep your kids away from them and some people will wind up being a rapist for the first time their are so many of them out here that it would be hard to keep them away teach your child about the bad peoiple and have them learn how to defend themselves
Have you tried making it about the person and not the kids, call and report this person. I don't know what your situation is but you could try moving away so it's harder for the kids to go to the other parent's house.
STOP TAKING YOU KIDS WHERE EVER YOU ARE TAKING THEM. THAT IS STUPID TO PUT THEM IN DANGER. YOU HAVE THOSE CHILDREN TO TAKE CARE OF THEM AND LOVE THEM. NOT PUT THEM IN HARMS WAY.
If the judge is asking for further investigation then it sounds to me as if you are wrong but they are being cautious. If the so called rapist (you can't spell) is a convicted offender then why is there a problem? The court would surely protect the child. I can only see there is a problem because he is accused. This does not make him a risk to the child just because he has been accused. He could be innocent. In which case they are right to keep an eye on him but not do anything. If he has been convicted of a crime then I am sorry but you sound like a bigot to me.